Why traveling alone isn't always relaxing.
- Bieke Switten

- 6 days ago
- 2 min read

Peace is not just found in the destination
More and more women feel the need to get away alone for a while.
And honestly?
I understand that completely.
For a moment, don't take others into account.
No schedules
No expectations
Just some time for yourself
But at the same time, I also notice something else.
Many women long for rest...but are so used to managing everything themselves that even relaxing becomes work again.
Looking for the best flight.
Choosing between a B&B or a hotel.
Search for restaurants.
Double-check the reviews.
Finding out where it is safe and quiet.
Are there fun activities nearby?
And when we have figured all that out, something else often happens.
We are starting to have doubts.
Can I really make this?
Can I really allow myself this?
And before you know it, we are planning, comparing, and thinking again.
While we were actually just looking for peace.
No full days, but plenty of space
When I started organizing trips, I knew one thing for sure:
I didn't want to create overcrowded schedules.
You can only truly relax when you also have the space to switch off.
No trips you come back from tired.
No "we still need to quickly do this" or "we're just going to quickly do that..."
I believe much more in:
Room
Quality
Rest
Small moments that stick with you
Because often it is not the major sights that you remember
But that one place, that conversation, or that walk
That is the moment when your mind finally quiets down a bit.
The taste of a good glass of wine.
A walk without time.
A place where you can just be for a moment.
That seems simple.
But not when you have to figure everything out, plan, and arrange it all yourself first.
Portugal is doing something special
Portugal has something that is difficult to explain.
The rhythm is different there.
The people are softer.
People take more time, so the days feel less rushed.
I often see the same pattern:
Women arrive with a mind that is fully occupied. And gradually notice that they can finally slow down.
Not because my travels do something “magical”.
But simply because space is finally opening up.
Maybe you recognize yourself in this.
Perhaps you feel while reading:
Yes… this is actually what I mean.
Not necessarily a big vacation.
But just some space.
Not having to arrange everything for a change.
Being able to slow down for a moment.
Then you can always send me a message.
Not to book immediately.
But just to see if my way of traveling suits you.






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